Pathways for Aging

Every day we hear and see messages which lead us to believe that “getting old” in America is someting to be avoided and feared. We live in a youth-oriented culture.  The media bombards us with products and information on anti-aging products.

Yet the medical field is continually researching ways we can prolong our lives.  We want to live longer and healthier, yet we don’t want to get “old”.  It is an interesting paradox. 

 I often see older adults who have been referred for counseling for depression and who have low self-esteem—they tell me they feel worthless or a burden. 

Which has led me to my interest in Positive Aging — seeking ways to help adults feel good about themselves, to try and prevent some of the mental health issues our therapists see daily.  It is going to take a change in the way our Society views aging, to change our youth-oriented culture, to one of respect for the wisdom and value of the older members of our society. 

I have been giving presentations on this topic the past few years, but it will take a change in the attitude and values of Americans.  I invite your ideas and ask — what can you do to help change the culture of aging in America?